Tuesday, April 09, 2013

Reasons (I) Cry Too

Reasons My Son Is Crying is a blog about a father who takes a picture of his son every time the boy cries. Under each picture, he writes the reason for his fit. As expected, the reasons range from the silly (he hates his bath) to the pesky (he threw away his dinner plate, now he wants his dinner).

It makes me think about the numerous times I've asked God for one thing or another, only to get a "NO," or worse a "WAIT" - the bane of the impatient. I don't throw dinner plates now, but the feelings of anger and disappointment are just as vicious inside. Few times, I'd turn to God lashing with anger. More often though, I'd turn away from Him and sulk in my little emotional corner.

A good father decisively say "NO" to the things that will lead his children to harm, even if his children want it for themselves. With each thoughtful "WAIT," he builds his children's character. I continue to remind myself that despite all my best intentions, God still knows what's best for me. It's a huge comfort to know that I can trust this Father, even if that meant enduring some cold baths once in a while, or waiting for a second chance at dinner.

Luke 11:11-13: “Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead? Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!”